Talking dirty doesn’t need to be a source of embarrassment or discomfort for anyone. We’re not all cool with words like: fuck or cock, but that doesn’t mean that you can enjoy some naughty talk and reap the rewards of a few well placed lines. Whether you are a shy person or one who is comfortable using the kinda talk that would make Ron Jeremy blush; here are some examples of dirty talk phrases translated from raunchy to slightly more, umm, eloquent?

I can’t wait to fuck you silly or I can’t wait to have you all to myself

Finger my pussy or Push your finger inside

Play with my clit or Touch me right there (as you place his hand just so)

Fuck me baby or I want you inside of me

I love your big cock or I love how it feels

I want to suck that beautiful cock of yours or I can’t wait to taste you

Oh yeah, fuck me hard or Mmm, it’s so deep

Lick my pussy or Go down on me

Fuck me from behind or I want to turn over baby

You get the idea.

A series of C-words isn’t necessary to get the point across and get him riled up. Most men do appreciate an encouraging swear word that seems as though it was thrown in amidst a desperate state of longing for him, but it isn’t a must by any means.

Some other tips to up the effect of your dirty talk phrases and make them even hotter:

Make Eye Contact: Whatever you say will have a bigger impact when said eye to eye. There is something about looking him right in the eye as you tell him how good he feels that intensifies the moment and level of intimacy.

Be confident: Don’t have any doubt about your sex appeal or your words when you use them. Show him that you mean every last hot word and he will believe it with every delicious inch of his body.

Touch Him: Whether you’re in bed or in public; if you are going to heat things up with a few well placed dirty talk phrases, then using your hands or even lips will vamp up your words no matter how tame! Press up against his crotch as you tell him you want him or run your index finger down his back, hard, while leaning in and telling him you can’t get enough of him. Sending shivers down his spine AND some dirty talk will drive him wild!

Now that you know what and how to say it, it’s time to get out there and enjoy the pleasures of aural sex. *Wink*

People make the mistake of thinking that dirty talk is strictly for the bedroom, but in fact, sexy ear candy can be used anywhere your heart (and loins!) desire. You know that old saying ‘there’s a time and place for everything’? That’s just hooey, dirty talk is for anytime and any place, done right of course.

One of the great things about dirty talk is that you don’t need to be schooled in the scripture of porn stars to be able to pull it off. If you add the right body language to it and even an element of surprise, very little will go a very long way. Some simple but well placed words will get him good! Here are some places where dirty talk will do the trick…

While He’s At Work: This is a great time to get the, er, ball rolling because he has the entire day to think about your hot words and anticipate what’s to come. *Pun fully intended* Call him mid morning and say something along the lines of: I don’t know what’s wrong with me. I’m feeling so hot right now! I can’t wait to see you later.

In Public: This is my favorite time to indulge in a little naughty talk because you need to be discreet and every word is like a hot little secret just between the two of you. How you do it is important here, so lean in close with a coy expression, press up against him and whisper something, anything into his ear. If you can throw in a caress or brush up against his crotch, even better! Something along the lines of: I want you so bad right now, is pretty much all it takes, but you can take it as far as you want with something like: I can’t wait to get my hands/lips on you. Try this in a restaurant, at a family function, on an airplane, ANYWHERE you want!

In Bed: This is by far the easiest time to talk dirty because the mood is pretty much already set for you, so something as simple as moaning softly when you kiss him is a great way to hint at what you want. There is something about a woman’s moan that can get a guy going within seconds! Telling him what you want him to do to you is a huge turn on for him, especially when said with certainty or even urgency.

So when the mood strikes, go ahead and just tell him whatever you’re feeling. How graphic you choose to be is up to you and should be based on what you feel comfortable saying and what you know he would feel comfortable hearing. Say it like you mean it and say it as close as possible and the rest will take care of its self.