I hear the question, how to talk dirty to my boyfriend, all the time. Talking dirty to your boyfriend is definitely a far different deal than doing so with a one night stand or some random guy online. Just because he’s your boyfriend doesn’t mean it is any easier, on the contrary! The fact that you two already know each other well could make it harder to start throwing in some hot talk between the sheets, especially if you’ve never talked that way as a couple.
When it is someone new or who is practically a stranger, you have the freedom to be anyone you want, even a total vixen! With a boyfriend though, you may worry what he’ll think of you for spewing obscenities like someone who’s been possessed or just feel shy, if not embarrassed, to be putting on this new sexy act. Don’t fret my sexy talker in training! There is hope for you yet!
A big part of talking dirty and pulling it off is being confident enough to do it. If you’re feeling self-conscious, you should keep in mind that your boyfriend wouldn’t be with you if he didn’t find you sexy. You should also keep in mind that survey after survey has shown that men love it when a woman takes the initiative in bed or is sexually adventurous. So, no matter how timid your man may be, chances are that hearing you purr a few sexy words between the sheets will drive him wild, so stop second-guessing the vamp in you and get talkin’!
Deciding how to start talking dirty to your boyfriend really depends on the situation. Saving it for the bedroom after things have started rolling along is your best approach if you want to be cautious as he will already be fully aroused and doing the deed. Slipping in a couple of louder moans than usual is a nice segway which can be followed by a couple of ooh’s and ahh’s and then finally, you can begin with a breathy, subtle statement. Take note of his expression and actions. It will be really easy to know if the comment was well received, and if it was, go in for the kill.
If you’re feeling a little bolder, try using the dirty talk as a foray to your night of sheet-dampening pleasure by slipping it in before it’s time to head upstairs. Send him off to work in the morning with a kiss and a whisper along the lines of, ‘I wish I could keep you all to myself today’, and throw in a wicked grin and a wink. That alone will get his mind racing. Give him a call around lunch time and tell him that you’ve been having some very naughty thoughts since he left and can’t wait for him to get home. Feel free to be as descriptive as you wish! By the time he gets home, he won’t be able to keep his hands off of you and will be so worked up that he’ll be more than ready for any naughtiness that you throw his way!
